Friday, July 27, 2012

Great Tips to Achieving Your Dream Using Power of Mind

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Many people are still skeptical about how the power of the mind can help to achieve success. No matter if you are one of the skeptics or you have just heard about mind power and starting to explore into the subject, allow yourself to be opened to receive as much information as possible. As long as you are a believer and tap into you powerful mind, you are on your way to your personal success.

Great Tips to Achieving Your Dream Using Power of Mind

You do not have to be a famous genius like well-known Scientist Albert Einstein to tap into the power of the mind. Anyone who is willing to be successful can be successful if the conditions are favorable. Yes, you may complaint that your conditions are not favorable at all. But do you know these conditions aren't the main obstacles which are hindering you from progressing? The main obstacle which is also the main solution is none other than you. You are responsible to who you are today. Likewise, your future is all under the control of your own mind.

All you need is some simple great tips on how to unleash that power and you are on your way to your dream.

• Be a Believer
Are you convinced that your mind power can do miracles? Are you still having some doubts in it? Are you still skeptical about its existence? If you are, I am sorry to say that you chance of unleashing the power of the mind can be zero. When you believe that you cannot tap into your mind power, you are right most of the time.

What you can do to make believe in the power of your mind is to find as much information and evidence as possible, so that you have sufficient supports to this idea. One way is to recall your past experiences which you have achieve the impossible through your determination. You might have failed once or twice but you know you can do it and so you went all the way out for it. Finally, you achieved what others have thought impossible. Yes, that is the power of mind.

If you really cannot recall any, start recording your positive experiences right now. You don't have to start big; you can start with smaller goal like finishing a book within a fixed time, exercise regularly or even waking up early for work. All such small goals are not only great exercises for your mind and benefit you; they are also evidence to turn you into a believer.

• Be very Clear of What You Want
Imagine you are to run a marathon alone and you do not know where the finishing line is, chances are, you will most likely end up nowhere, lost or back to the starting line. In order to effectively use your mind power, you must know what you want. The goal you are aiming for has to be very clear and not just some shallow dream. Unless you can really put them in words or even create a mental picture on your goal, you are not sure what you really want. When it is clear, your mind will know what to focus on.

• Be a Dreamer
Creating mental pictures of your desired future in your mind is great, but if you can create your dream life into a movie, that can be even better. Visualize your desired future regularly and feel the kind of wonderful feeling like you have already achieved them. For example, if your goal is to become a Senior Director in your company, you should visualize the kind of challenging job you would enjoy, the people you would meet and salary you would get. You can even go on to visualize purchasing the things you always wanted but simply cannot afford now. In other words, not just plain visualizing, you should include feelings and emotions to make it work.

• Take Action
You will not be who you want to be if you simply dream without taking any action. How on earth are you going to lose those extra pounds if you refuse to change your diets and are too lazy to exercise? The best is to have a proper plan and you can get into action more easily. Every action you take is a step nearer to your dream.

Last not but not least, you have to stay positive in order to tap into your power of the mind. Get rid of all negative thoughts and if possible, stay away from negative people who can easily influence you. Negativity can only breed negative results. By staying positive, your mind power can effectively bring positive result into your life.


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Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Model Airplanes - Get Set For Take Off

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Flying has always been considered a skillful and enthusiastic sport. It is no longer about just flying a plane up in the air, and turning it left and right by the use of the control panel. It has become a challenging sport for those who love the skies and all that flies. Model planes were invented with the intention of giving the flyers a high, especially for those who had the desire and passion, but did not have the means. Now, there are ample of choices for planes, to make them fly and thus change your dreams into reality. But, like I mentioned earlier, it is no longer about just flying a plane, as you would fly a kite. You need to ensure that you are set and ready, before you take off your model airplane.

Model Airplanes - Get Set For Take Off

To enable you to do so, there are some things you need to do. If you have absolutely no knowledge, then you should learn from some books or magazines or even by way of the Internet. Try and gain as much knowledge as you can, about how planes work, and their infinite possibilities, when they are up in the sky. Knowledge is power. Armed with this knowledge, it will become easier for you to decide, what kind of plane you will start with or how best you can make it worth.

There are also RTF and ARTF kits available in the market. I feel that you should not go in for an RTF (Ready To Fly) kit, as it is 95% done and ready. But, invest in an ARTF (Almost Ready To Fly) kit, as a lot more has to be assembled. This assembling actually gives you a feel of things, and you will know different parts of a plane, from its wings to the fuselage, engine, batteries, rods, etc. It is only when you handle your own plane, that you will be able to repair and work on the damages, as you are acquainted with its parts. No need of scurrying for help. Be independent.

Once you have mastered the parts of the plane, the next thing you do is to try and fly it indoors or better still buy a simulator, before you buy a plane. Virtually, it is easier to handle the plane. You need to gain confidence, before you get set to take off. Be prepared to face few damages, which is likely to happen. Take it in your stride, as this is all a part of flying. As long as you are set, just take off into the skies. There is nothing that can replace the awe and joy that you will get at flying your own model plane. All the best, on your very first take off! Sky is the limit!


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Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Digital Cameras - A Whole New Digital World

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With the technological advancement, several new inventions have taken place. These inventions are made to make life simpler. Human civilisation adapted the technology and moved forward to enhance knowledge. With constant research and development, companies are introducing user-friendly gadgets that are successful in meeting varied needs of people. Every alternate day, you can find development of high-end appliances, mobile phones, laptops, internet networks and many more to make your dreams come true. There are lots many that are to be unveiled in the coming years. Mobile phones brought sea change in the telephony world and laptops have made office work easier. Similarly the digital camera revolution has also brought several benefits to the photography industry.

Digital Cameras - A Whole New Digital World

It has provided new meaning to the relationship as the digital cameras help you to capture impressive moments of life. They allow you to capture exquisite photos at a much cheaper cost than the same taken from film cameras. The major advantage is that it allows sending and sharing saved photos to friends and families. If you speak of traditional film device, it required several rolls and film frames to take pictures. The qualities of photos were also not up to the mark and were useless. No editing was possible and it was just wastage of money, but with the introduction of digital instruments, the photography industry has benefited a lot. Several companies like KODAK, Canon, Sony, Olympus etc have understood the market needs and are constantly designing high-end instruments. These devices offer you mind-blowing picture quality as they are loaded with sometimes 10 mega pixel camera or more. They work like computer accessory and have varied settings and resolution. They enable you to download images and videos into your PCs from where you can take a print out of the said images.

With the coming of modern cameras, developing roll is history now. Soon you capture images, you can do modifications as they are equipped with editing tools. It can be an excellent gift for the near and dear ones as they allow you to save memories. The digital photographs can make you feel excited and make the occasion memorable. The best thing is that you can take both video and still images by recording them digitally. They even ensure recording of sound and moving videos. Compare digital cameras which are accompanied with marvellous features. The immediate display of image on the screen, the very moment it is recorded is marvellous. They also record video along with the sound. They also have edit and delete option which ensures re-using of the storage space that was earlier occupied

Online shopping portals have on display several pink digital cameras. These are available in three kinds; the first is the Camcorders. It is generally used by the professional photographers. They come with micro phone which enables to record sound. To look at the video throughout taping or playback, it is loaded with liquid crystal display. There are Professional video devices also which are basically used by television and movie production industry. They are equipped with multiple image sensors which are primarily for image resolution and colours setting. Another exclusive device is the Webcam which mostly comes with the computers and laptops. They help in video conferencing and video chatting. They ensure full motion video and mostly come with microphones and zooming function.

They are for occasional use. The different models like Canon Digital IXUS 850 IS, Panasonic Lumix FX30 and Fuji film Fine Pix F40fd are appealing digital camera to go for. SLR camera (Single Lens Reflex) are not basically for capturing images but are tools that helps in assisting what is present in the meantime. It has an automatic moving mirror system that allows the photographer to view the exact thing that has to be captured by the digital imaging system. It comes with great features such as manually controlled lens, large lens radius, multiple images at a click of a button and advanced stability system. Before buying just see the Shutter speed, types of images that can be saved and lastly the ability to do auto and manual focus. You can avail heavy discount on digital cameras.


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Monday, July 23, 2012

Winter Carp Fishing Expert Tips To Help You To Easily Improve Your Catches!

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Revealed here are some little secrets to get you started on the best fishing season you ever had! In this very special carp fishing article are some thoughts insights and experiences which will help you see unseen blocks to your catches that you will not have ever realised existed! Focus your attention on the details revealed! Whether you are an experienced angler or just a beginner they will make all the difference to your fishing for life!

Winter Carp Fishing Expert Tips To Help You To Easily Improve Your Catches!

I expect you are most likely thinking that this must be my year; that at last I am going to succeed and really get into those big fish I have been dreaming of! This exact kind of thought is the mindset that programmes you to succeed in fishing and I will explain why it works and how to harness it much further. You might ask who are you to talk about fishing success and all I can say is for starters is that in 2006 I decided to catch the world record carp. Subsequently within 9 days of fishing at Rainbow Lake I had hooked that specific fish.

My detailed technical preparations involving bait design, very unusual bait applications and formats used and very particular attention given to every single item of tackle chosen and sourced for this mission all paid off. But most of all it was the mindset and constant self talk which paid off. This heightened my awareness and sensitivity to everything I could possibly harness within my environment and own past big fish experiences and focused them all towards my goal.

Winter and early spring are times when you simply must be positive at all times and be at the peak of your abilities as an angler because being in such an alert frame of mind maximises whatever chances may be available. But far more importantly still is that with this sharpened mindset you will actively proactively create your own unique catching opportunities and competitive edges!

When you focus in as great a detail on every single aspect of your fishing challenge then this crystallizes everything at your disposal so it is readily available at your finger tips. There is a reason why top match men practice the way they do. Practice does not make perfect. The truth is that perfect practice makes perfect. I have fished with and beaten a guy who matched for the England Sea fishing team, using baiting tactics and technical strategies from my carp fishing.

I have also beaten a guy in catching some of the very biggest carp from a very hard lake. This guy match fished for England as a youth and was technically speaking among the most refined carp anglers I have fished against. I was able to out fish him by using adapted details of lessons learned from sea fishing and river fishing. You are wondering how does this relate to your own winter carp fishing I guess so I will expand on what I have just described!

What I did to beat these two obviously highly talented and experienced anglers was to use my mind to focus extremely intently upon everything that could possibly be relevant that I ever experienced, read, seen, invented, imagined, or intuited. This included every single thing in fishing I ever observed in the past and present, and my gut feelings about it all in regards to the present fishing situation and challenges in detail that this had. This mental focus is really what Kevin Maddocks was referring to when he wrote about having a positive mental attitude when winter fishing.

To be a sharp carp fisherman is not to have the latest baits and equipment, but to hone your mind shaper than anyone else! This is what Richard walker did, and one of the things that made Rod Hutchinson stand out and what made so many truly great pioneers in carp fishing do so well. In fact so many of these were so sharp that other anglers thought they were crazy, and Duncan Kay is a perfect example of a great angler and technical bait pioneer too that really had vision and as a result in the seventies he was well ahead of the crowd!

Modern anglers today have mainly lost this creative mind power which assures great success. This is because most anglers are simply following the herd to a massive degree, and copying whatever fashionable baits and methods are the latest to be advertised or talked about in the carp magazines. I hope you can see how limiting this is to success!

For a start, using the same readymade bait as everyone else means you have just lost any competitive edge over them. But the entire point of bait is to be an edge, not simply over cautious carp but obviously over other anglers too. When other anglers catch your target fish on exactly the same readymade bait as you are using think about how much this drastically reduces your own chances!

I recommend that you use the winter and spring to seriously reassess everything you are thinking about your carp fishing. You have many blocks to your success which are actually caused by your own limited and out of date thinking. Carp are dynamically evolving creatures and every single one is constantly day by day individually changing on a genetic level, just like you! I bet you did not realise for example that your genetics are not fixed and that you are adapting genetically in response to the food you eat! I hope this makes you think!

There is no perfect diet! This is because every individual is unique in their genetic make up and details arising from this dynamic and every experience past and present an individual has. This applies to humans and carp equally. For example, a bait with an exact match to bloodworm amino acid profile may be invented that is in a format that physically fools carp. However, once enough carp are hooked on this enough times they will change, even to the point of avoiding consuming bloodworm totally.

Carp have evolved not merely to be acutely sensitive to potential opportunities for energy and nutrition, but also for threats and dangers from these. Not many anglers realise that the actual specific baits that they use directly condition carp to the danger that is associated with them. This is a big reason why I avoid using readymade baits!

I make my own homemade baits designing my own boilie recipes mainly using ingredients which are not used in readymade baits! It takes visualization and careful thought to do this and I do help loads of anglers achieve this very successfully. I do this because it works and because my greater satisfaction is in knowing my experiences are empowering other anglers to catch their dream fish! It has amazed me to discover that in fact doing this is far more satisfying than the highs of catching all the lake records and personal best fish I have over the past 35 years!

These personal catches are fleeting moments of ecstasy that is for sure, but these memories and feelings fade like photographs over time. But getting catch reports from anglers whom you have helped to catch new records using homemade baits on their water, to beat readymade baits such as Bait craft, Richworth, and Mainline etc, feels so fantastic!

So back to what you can control most of all in your fishing, and to positively creating your own detailed guaranteed success in advance!

The only place you can actually do perfect practice for fishing whether to win an international match, or to catch the biggest carp in your lake is to keep on doing perfect practice in your own mind! This is one thing I have a feeling that Terry Hearn for instance spends much of his time doing; far more than the average angler. This involves anything from location and fish behaviour patterns and feeding spots and how they change over time in a lake, to visualizing exactly how your target fish enter the swim, how they sample baits and respond to the presence of terminal tackle and baits on the bottom.

You can get better and stronger and far more detailed in your fishing visualization at any time and any place; and not just in your bivvy! You can deeply detail visualize at home while making homemade baits, when making up rigs and when taking valuable hours manually sharpening your hooks well past the fineness of any chemically sharpened hooks! Very few articles have ever been on the mental side of fishing yet I make this point for this simple reason; every single action you take in fishing is a result of your mind and your thoughts and because of this your degree of success is totally in your own mind!

Perfect practice visualization of exactly the goal you have in mind hones your awareness and opens your consciousness to everything you need to improve upon and refine further and further until you succeed, so that success really genuinely does literally become simply a matter of time! Perfect practice visualization is the most powerful thing you can constantly do in your fishing so I recommend you think about this! Revealed in my unique readymade bait and homemade bait carp and catfish bait secrets eBooks is far more powerful information look up my unique website (Baitbigfish) and see my biography below for details of my eBooks deals right now!

By Tim Richardson.


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Sunday, July 22, 2012

Peter Pan & Dorothy Escape Fantasy Island!

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Years ago when we arrived, the Economic Amusement Park was like Disney Land for grown-ups. It was better than Disney Land because we created our own fun from the Magic Abundant Forest where money really did grow on trees and the trails were marked with golden stepping stones leading every visitor to the home of their dreams.

Peter Pan & Dorothy Escape Fantasy Island!

Along with our fully outfitted dream homes were the latest model vehicles, including boats, four-wheelers, power scooters for our kids, cell phones for the whole family, intercoms, internet, inter-galactic satellite to receive every bad movie ever made in the entire Universe on our 5 billion channel, 10-ft. wide, high def televisions with surround sound loud enough to lift you out of your 27 function barco-lounger with built-in popcorn maker! It was AWESOME.

Life was bliss while we floated along the Tunnel of Love-My-Stuff as long as we paid no attention to the 'man' behind the curtain pulling the levers and spinning the dials of our Fantasy Island make believe. The rides in the Economic Amusement Park were exhilarating as well as whimsical. The Merry Money-Go-Round was a favorite as it took us on a ride of endless revolving credit on multi-colored bank cards disguised as lovely prancing ponies, gentle giraffes and sophisticated swans. Round and round and up and down as we let the calliope music lull us into the "bigger is better" mantra of super-sized jumbo loans and (nutritionally void) delicious whopper waistlines (more to love, right?)

But like the emerald city of Dubai, the Economic Amusement Park was built on a foundation of ever shifting sand, made-up of pretend rules of conduct and ethics that were amended on a whim by the great and powerful wiki-Oz. And like all good and well behaved children that seek the approval of our elders and do what we are told, we began to feel confused and disoriented as our Tea Party-Cups spun faster and faster and the fine print we were to follow got smaller and smaller until everything was just a blur and our heads ached and our stomachs churned and we begged the ride to stop.

As we stumble back to our foundation cracking, paint peeling, high maintenance homes we can't understand what went wrong. We no longer understand the rules of the game. We didn't even realize we were playing a game. God forbid we let anyone know that we don't understand what's going on. So we keep it all inside like frightened children and ask ourselves what we should do. Who can we trust? Should we do something different? But what? It will work itself out, right? And then we'll get back to having fun again! I can't wait until they re-open the Merry Money-Go-Round. It sure has been down for maintenance a long time now.

Like the Hotel California of song lore, once you enter the Economic Amusement Park, you can never leave! UNLESS... and here's the really OMG, Dorothy and the ruby slippers- 'a-ha', "I could've had a V-8" moment...

...You GROW UP and take 100% responsibility for everything that has brought you to this exact moment in time!

Stop crying Peter Pan, if you want things to be different then you have to change. Adults can have fun too, I promise. They have even more fun because they don't worry about who is controlling the purse strings of their lives. The Fantasy Island Economic Amusement Park is in ruins because we wanted to experience the carefree frolic of excessiveness! Wheeee!

Now stop blaming the government, Wall Street, the Auto, Airline or Oil & Gas industries on your personal debt - you got what you asked for, be grateful for your education and experience and let it go. Become the parent to your own financial health & well being that you so wantonly left up to others in the past.

Blame and shame will only perpetuate more of the same.

So grab hold of one another Peter and Dorothy, as fiscally responsible grown-ups you can literally walk out the front gates of the run-down Economic Amusement Park and the guards will never notice. The precious golden ring of awareness will make you invisible to the other miserable souls still standing in line at the Merry Money-Go-Round with the "closed for repairs" sign on the chain. You will be vibrating with a new, higher fiscal frequency that no else in the park can see. Go ahead, walk through those rusty gates, and see what it feels like!

Unlike the ones left behind, you are now responsibly FREE!

Today is the first step toward an awareness that there is another way to relate to money in your life and business. Most of us have become totally schizophrenic when it comes to money. When we have it we trust in the universe, we are happy in our relationships, we feel less inhibited to express ourselves. When the flow of income appears too slow or even to stop from time to time we literally become physically contracted. Our thoughts become twisted with fear as we trip down the negative future fantasy path of 'not enough'! Coming out of the Fantasy Island coma can leave you feeling both excited and fearful. What next? How will I reinvent myself and the work I do in the world? How will I make enough money to live a life of personal and financial freedom?

Fear not Peter and Dorothy. The energetic (spiritual) and practical (physical) tools and support you need to re-invent your way of doing business in the world is ready and waiting for you to take the leap up to the next highest version of you and your business! And, here's more good news... it's really okay to have FUN and create a beautiful, successful business at the same time without getting stuck on the Feast or Famine Roller Coaster!

To Your Heart & Soul Success,

~Schelli~

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Saturday, July 21, 2012

How to Get Your Wife Back, Forever

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Think back to your wedding day. No, think back to the day that you proposed to your then wife-to-be. Remember the feelings that you had? Now think of the wedding day. The hope in the future that you two were about to share together. A new home, maybe kids, a fresh new start.

How to Get Your Wife Back, Forever

At the point that you said 'I do' to each other, you made a promise to be together in sickness and in health, for better or worse. How did you find yourself at the point were your marriage was just all about the 'worse'? Trying to come back from a marriage that has seen better days and is strained is not as easy thing to do.

It might seem as though your marriage is over; or so close that there may seem that there is nothing you can do. Men who have been through this know, all too well, that this is a painful and difficult situation. One day you were part of a loving and happy couple, the next you face a future without the one you love. In truth, it feels like you have lost half of who you are.

There is always hope. No matter how impossible the situation may seem, with determination and effort, there is a way back from this; it is possible.

So, what's the first step?

Again, think back to the time that you proposed.

Who were you then? What were your hopes and dreams? How did you feel towards your, soon to be, wife. These feelings are looked inside of you.

If you still love her, those feelings are there, you just need to bring them to the surface. Show her that you are the same man that she married.

She fell in love and married that man. Try to find him and show her that you are still there for her.

Tread carefully. There has been a lot of water under the bridge since back then.

It won't be as easy as it was the first time. Take it slowly. Regain her trust. Show her that you want to be the man that she deserves, the man that she married; maybe an even better man than the one she married.

What not to do in this situation is smother her. Don't call her 20 times a day. Don't send her emails all of the time, and certainly don't make any face to face contact unless it's initiated by her, or a completely and mutually pre-arranged 'date'. This will take restraint on your part, but anything less will seriously jeopardise your plans to win her back.

She needs, above all else, to feel special. Don't forget that she is going through hell too, not just you. She will be conflicted. Whatever you think that you have lost, she has lost just as much.

Compliment her, make her feel as you did when you first dated. Tell her how great she looks, it really works.

Be honest with yourself about how you feel. Communicate, genuinely, with her and your sincerity will shine through. Regain her trust and rebuild what you had on your wedding day and much more.

Ask yourself what you have done to contribute to the problems in your marriage. Pinpoint your mistakes and learn from them.

The beauty of having freedom of choice is that we can decide how to behave. Assess you own behaviour throughout your marriage and ask yourself what needs to change.

What do you need to stop doing and what do you, really, need to start doing to enjoy a happy marriage?

You have decided to change. If you don't know what you were doing wrong to turn your marriage into what it has become, how can you change?

Don't beg; it's not what your wife wants to see. Just be strong and show her that you are committed to change and determined to make your marriage work. It will take time. Don't get annoyed if she isn't ready to take the next step as quickly as you are. Be patient. Be understanding. She will come to see that you are serious about getting her back.

She'll need time.

Try to look at the situation from her point of view. Why is she feeling the way she is feeling. What have you done, or not done, to make her feel that she needed to leave. Once you have, honestly, answered these questions, you can, not only, try to get her back, but avoid this happening again.

Now, no-one is saying that this will be easy. It will take patience and determination to get her back. Be a grown up. Be honest, with her and with yourself. Try and be a better man, for her and for yourself. Be her friend, lover and companion.

On your wedding day you made a commitment to her, now is the time to prove to her that you can fulfil that commitment. Once you have her back and you are being the husband that she deserves, she should never feel the need to leave again. It's a totally within your control.


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Friday, July 20, 2012

Life Lessons at the Gym

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Have you ever noticed how one absolutely pertinent life lesson sometimes sneaks up on you SMACK IN THE MIDDLE of another context? I think many of us have experienced this "Aha!" connection.

Life Lessons at the Gym

For example, a couple of years ago, I was working hard at "stepping out" into the world more boldly and becoming more visible, particularly in my business. At the same time I was also taking voice lessons. I remember one particular lesson in which my voice teacher kept repeating to me, almost shouting, "You need to take up more space!"

Well, it happened again this morning, in a full, multi-dimensional way! During my spinning class, many areas of my current learning got reinforced. First, "what's spinning?" you might ask. Spinning is a popular form of cardio-workout class offered at many fitness centers. Participants and teacher ride a special stationary bike with sensitive controls for adjusting resistance. Setting the resistance very high simulates the experience of riding a bike up a steep hill. Although the teacher leads the class through a finely tuned workout of hills, intervals, sprints, and so forth, each person can work at her own level.

This morning, I heard the instructions and immediately realized they applied on more than one level. My antennae were up and wiggling. I was so delighted with it, I immediately thought of sharing it with you. Here's how it played out, in no particular order.

FEEL THE FOCUS IN THE ROOM

Early on, the teacher said, "Feel the focus in the room." The
combination of energy and intention in the spinning room was palpable, powerful, inspiring. When you surround yourself with like-minded people, the collective intention and focus support everyone. The whole is somehow much greater than the sum of the parts. The corollary is that the well-meaning "support" of people in your life who are not aligned with you can be "the kind of help we all could do without." Sometimes that "alignment" is hard to define; it isn't a straightforward matter. Look deeper when you sense some distrust or doubt from a supportive person. The words may be right, but the spirit or intention may be off-kilter and not what you need at this time.

STRONG LEGS, STRONG MIND

During our first climb, she said, "Strong legs, strong mind." The learning here is to pay attention to both the muscle and the intention. We often focus just on the "legs" and forget the mind. We implement a strategy to increase our income but don't deal with our core ambivalence about money. We want to be more effective at work but our attention is scattered. Where you look is where you go: how well you focus your mind is as critical to your success as the efficiency of your "pedal strokes." Keep your larger intention clear and conscious for yourself. The legs often take care of themselves.

MUSIC MAKES IT ALL MORE FUN

Having great music playing converts the work into play, turns the workout into dance, transforms difficulty into exhilaration. What's music to you? Where in your life do you need to turn it on or turn it UP? (or turn it OFF?)

SMIDGEONS COUNT

After we increased resistance several times on one of our "hills," the teacher said, "Turn your resistance up a smidgen. And by the way, 'smidgen' is in the dictionary. I looked it up." Next steps count, no matter how small they are. Whether you're expanding your workout zone by one heartbeat a minute, recovering from a "failure" more quickly than the last time, or driving to the airport for the first time - SMALL STEPS COUNT! In fact, they are THE PRIMO medium of personal growth and evolution. Let's face it - quantum transformational leaps are not often an option for most of us mortals. But at any moment in your life, next steps are always visible to you - small steps you are capable of taking. Think of 'smidgen' as a highly technical term in the realm of personal growth.

YIN AND YANG

Pedaling a bike is a circular motion, but we naturally emphasize the down stroke. In spinning, we're supposed to pedal as hard on the up stroke as on the down stroke. We need the teacher's countless reminders, "Equal strokes up and down!" Another way she helps is to pace us. She has us bring our heart rate up to our cardio range (the higher range of heart beats per minute that gives us a cardiovascular workout), keep it there for a while, and then bring it down to our "recovery range." She leads us through this cycle a few times during the 45-minute class. This is applied workout technology: these cycles are efficient ways to get the most out of an exercise program. So what's the lesson here? Up is as important as down. Rest is as important as work. Stopping is as important as going. Relaxed is as important as pumped. Down time is as important as up time. What are YOU discounting??

HAVE A TEACHER

It makes a difference to have a teacher! And having an excellent teacher is the best! What are you trying to do on your own that you'd do much better, faster and more enjoyably with a teacher? This needn't be seen as a weakness; we don't need to be totally self-sufficient. Be aware of where you're struggling and keep an eye out for your teacher. You know, "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear." (And what are YOU ready to teach?)

GO FOR IT

During a particularly hard part of the workout, the teacher said, repeatedly, "Go for it!" The music was thumping, my endorphins were pumping, and I was totally "going for it." Making an all-out effort in one part of your life supports you to do so in any other part of your life. It builds your credibility with yourself as a person who can "do 100%." Try it. Taste it. Feel it. You'll like it. You'll even thirst for more opportunities to go for it.

GIVE YOURSELF A HAND

At the end of the class, when we had cooled down and stretched out, the teacher said, "Give yourselves a hand for a really good workout." We did, proudly. Acknowledging yourself is such a simple, inexpensive, powerful way to keep yourself motivated! Yet I bet you don't do it nearly enough. You wouldn't dream of working your staff, your students, or your kids as hard as you work yourself without thanking them and acknowledging them for their hard work! And mean it when you do.

THANK YOU

Special thanks to my excellent Tuesday morning spinning teacher, Debby Fertig. Also to my other terrific spinning teachers: Andy Bergman, Nancy Jenney, and Joan Tufenkjian. Thanks to the Mt. Auburn Club in Watertown, MA for offering spinning classes throughout the week.

COACHING TIPS:

1. Pick a "spinning lesson" that speaks to you from the list above.

2. Name an arena in your life where you would like to apply that principle.

3. Think of a way you could apply that principle.

4. Do it this week.

NO TENSING, NO CLENCHING, NO SHOULDERS

"NO TENSING, NO CLENCHING, NO SHOULDERS," the spinning teacher tells us as we pedal into a sweat on the stationary bikes. When you ride a spinning bike, it's the legs that do the work. But if you're not paying attention, you can add to your workload by clenching your teeth and tensing your shoulders so they're up to your ears! This secondary work is not only unnecessary - it's counterproductive. The teacher's reminder is helpful. All it takes is consciousness and intention to relax the parts that don't need to be working.

You can apply this principle in so many ways! When you are on a
tight schedule, you can remember to breathe. When you are challenged
by a work project, you can still take a relaxed lunch break. When you are stressing about SOMEthing, you don't need to stress about EVERYthing.

Where can you apply this in your life? All it takes is
consciousness and intention. No tensing, no clenching, no shoulders!


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Thursday, July 19, 2012

How to Last Longer in Bed - Causes of Premature Ejaculation and Tips For Lasting Longer

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Every man wishes to have stiffer and long lasting erections in order to spend more time in bed and keep premature ejaculation at bay but few manage to achieve this. In this article let us find out the main causes and some remedies for premature ejaculation.

How to Last Longer in Bed - Causes of Premature Ejaculation and Tips For Lasting Longer

Causes of Premature Ejaculation
There are a number of factors that can cause this problem but the most important one is the mental state of mind. Men usually get over excited about sex hence when presented with an opportunity to have sex with the women of their dreams they cannot control their excitement and end up ejaculating within a few minutes and sometimes in just seconds. So treating premature ejaculation is all about training your mind and controlling your anxiety.

How To Last Longer In Bed
As mentioned earlier lasting longer in bed is all about training your mind which can be done through a number of resources. Let us discuss about some of them.

1. Meditation
It helps you command a better control over your breathing which is essential for controlling your ejaculate. Meditation also helps in balancing your nervous system and calming down your mind and emotions hence helping you relax in bed and in turn you will automatically last longer in bed because you will have complete control over your ejaculation.

2. Herbs
Just like meditation herbs have the same soothing effect on your mind by calming down your nerves and getting rid of your performance anxiety levels. So if you are not willing to go ahead with meditation herbs can be of great help to you.

3. Stamina
You can meditate or eat herbs but if you do not have the desired stamina levels you are bound to get tired early and finish off the act well before its actual climax. So improve your stamina levels by exercising regularly and eat healthy foods which are good for your body.


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Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Finding Bad Credit Car Finance the Easy Way

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Having a bad credit rating does not mean you can't get car financing. Bad credit can sometimes feel like the world is against you and it can be difficult to get the car of your dreams if you suffer from a bad credit history. Not all financial companies require extensive credit history checks so don't throw in the towel just yet.

Finding Bad Credit Car Finance the Easy Way

There are a variety of financial companies out there who will cater for people with a bad credit rating or no credit rating at all. These companies will have special deals, offers and loans to supply you with the car financing you need. It's never been easier to get your hands on a loan for a car. You can apply online, by phone or in person with a specific financial company or you can search online and have a look at a variety of quotes and deals from financial companies using a dedicated price comparison site.

Don't feel let down by your bad credit, regardless of your history, these companies will be able to help you to gain control of your credit rating and get the car you need. Find out what they can do for you and how their deals will benefit you. You are a potential customer just like anyone else, so don't be afraid to do some research and hunt around for the best quote you can get. There are many car financing companies out there and this means a competitive market for everyone including those people with bad credit. For specialist companies, the loan you can get is based upon your current ability to pay the loan back which is judged on your current income. This means your credit rating is not a hindrance when obtaining a loan from a car financing company for bad credit.

Make sure you can afford your loan payments, do not be tempted to go for larger loans just because they are available to you. Choose a low cost affordable loan even if it means you don't get your perfect car straight away. Making sure you can pay off your loan will ensure you improve your bad credit for future car financing. Remember, your loan is secured on your car so if the worst happens and you cannot afford to pay the loan anymore the car will be repossessed. This means you will be out of pocket, without a car and have a worse credit rating than before.

Obtaining an affordable loan may mean you don't get the best car, or the newest car straight away but you can use this to build up your credit rating for future purchases. You should also bear in mind that there are many other sums to take into account such as car insurance, road tax and other expenses. Remember not to get pressured into your car financing loan and do some research on the types of loans you can get and how much the car you want is really going to cost you.


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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Facts About Male Insecurity And Jealousy

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Good Job, You Did It?

Facts About Male Insecurity And Jealousy

You finally landed the girl of your dreams. She's beautiful, smart and sexy. She is everything that you've ever wanted in a woman. Every time you both go out, you notice all the guys checking her out. In turn, you hold her closely in a protective manner and send dirty looks to the gawkers. You watch her every move and feel a hint of jealousy and insecurity at times when it is not warranted. You constantly call to check up on her and then count the seconds before she returns your call. You feel extremely paranoid when she goes out with girlfriends or co-workers. You instantly feel rage when she looks at another guy, however innocent it may be.

You feel consumed by your insecurities, directing your energy towards over protectiveness and jealousy instead. You try to buy her time and attention by buying her gifts, dinners and whisking her away on vacations. You also prefer to spend your time with her at home and not out in public for fear of her looking at other men. You use possess and isolate tactics on her.

So where does all this jealousy and insecurity come from?

You may have had some really bad experiences before regarding loyalty and relationships and you don't want this to happen to you again. You intensely pledge your guarantee that she is the only one in your life. Male insecurity has been proven to be directly connected with a deficiency in the size of the male member. Many men are bothered by their current penis size and constantly look down on themselves. This definitely explains the thriving penis enlargement industry. Other reasons include money and resources. Many guys feel disdain and often envy towards other men who are better off than themselves. Having more money means you could probably buy your girl bigger and better gifts, that you think makes you highly desirable and attractive.

All men, just like women, need to be liked and loved. They want to be adored, respected and esteemed. Men want to feel important and special to someone.

So How Would You Fix This?

You need to take time and do a self-assessment. Get new clothes, hairstyle and learn new things. Get a membership at a gym and start shedding those pounds or toning your body. More importantly, is the measure of trust and loyalty that you and your girl have for each other. Do not let your insecurities and jealousy cloud your judgment and ruin your relationship. Treat your girl with the utmost respect and start trusting her more. She is with you isn't she?


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Monday, July 16, 2012

Numerology - Life Challenge Number

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In Numerology, numerologists use 3 individual numbers to represent the life challenges. These numbers interpretations represent the obstacles, hurdles and difficulties that you will face during certain phases of your life.

Numerology - Life Challenge Number

The First Number is the Early Challenge Number. It represents the difficulties you may face in the first 28 years of your life.

The Second Number is the Middle Challenge Number. It represents the difficulties may face in the second 28 years of your life.

The Third Number is the Main Challenge Number. It emphasizes the difficulties that you may face in the latter part of your life. The Main Challenge Number also represents the chronic obstacles that you face your entire life.

The Main Challenge Number is said to be the most dominant of all the Challenge Numbers. It takes priority over the other 2 numbers because it represents obstacles that may come from within you. It is known as "the devil" that you may find yourself fighting with your entire life. It is that question that burned inside you that you hope you will have answered before you die.

The Early Challenge Number is less influential. It may represent problems that are more situational or episodic problems. It indicates problems that can be due to circumstances or your parents. These problems usually appears as the child matures and enters the Middle Years of their Life Cycle.

The Middle Challenge Number also a number that depends on the situation and usually represents the hardship of the people around you. It can also represent behavioral problems and problems that are beyond your control.

Now to calculate your Challenge Numbers, first you reduce your day, month and year; your Life Path Number, down to a single digit. To calculate Your Challenge Number correctly you must reduce all numbers to a single digit, even master number 11 & 22.

For Example my Birthday is 4-14-1973

Month: 4

Day: 1+5=6

Year: 1+9+7+3-20 2+0=2

Calculating your Challenge Numbers is different then any others in Numerology, in this calculation you DO NOT want to total you day, month, and year numbers. You want to treat them eash as their own number.

To calculate your Early Life Challenge Number subtract your month number & your day from each other, the difference is your Early Challenge Number.

In my case, my month is 4 and my day is 6

6-4=2

My Early Challenge Number would be a 2.

Next your are going to calculate your Middle Challenge Number, to do this find the difference between your day & year numbers.

In my case, my day is 6 and my year is 2

6-2=4

My Middle Challenge Number would be a 4.

Don't think you did something wrong if you get a 0 as your result for this calculation. In this particular calculation is rare but it is possible. There is an interpretation for this rare number.

And finally to get you Main Challenge Number you are going to subtract your Early Life Challenge Number from your Middle Life Challenge Number.

So mine would be, 4-2=2

My Main Life Challenge Number would be a 2.

If you end up with the same number more then once, as in my case, it could mean that it has doubly the impact in your life.

If you Early Challenge Number and your Middle Challenge Number are the same then it could mean that your childhood problems may dominate all of your years. It may also mean that some of the problems you have faced were beyond your control.

If your Middle Challenge Number is the same as your Main Challenge Number it could mean that most of your problems were made as an adult. When you read the interpretation of that number well give you clues as to when you are your own worst enemy.

If all three numbers are the same then it is safe to say that your stars are trying to make you learn a lesson in life by causing problems to arise where ever you go.

Here are the interpretations for your Life Challenge Numbers. The same interpretations are used for Early, Middle & Main Life Challenge Numbers.

Life Challenge Number 0

People with a challenge Number 0 may feel in general like
they are being confronted with difficulties that seem to be
relentless and coming from all directions. Usually people who
are zeros are very sophisticated spiritually and thought to
possess the abilities of all the other numbers. However they
have problem making definitive decisions and sticking with
them. In early life this can manifest as a difficult or
abusive childhood. In adult life you may overcome great
obstacles to succeed.

Life Challenge Number 1

People with a life challenge Number 1 may feel as if every
dream and ambition that they have is being thwarted by unfair
circumstances. Bitterness, defensiveness and blaming others
may be a chronic problem.
Usually this is due to being too pushy or aggressive. Even if
you are not unreliable or unpredictable, others may perceive
you as so. A gentler touch plus a well focused, methodical plan
can help you achieve your aims. You self-sabotage by plunging
ahead blindly.

Life Number Challenge Number 2

The challenges presented for a number two are oversensitivity
and a tendency towards self-centeredness. It may be difficult
for you to realize that you are not the center of the
universe. In your early years your lack of ambition, status
consciousness and need for approval from others may cause you
to have a poor self image. In adult life twos are very prone
to codependency, addiction and troubled relationships if they
cannot learn to let go of their resentments and blame.

Life Challenge Number 3

This represents a period in your life when you might find it
hard to focus either because of emotional or psychological
disturbances or because of boredom. Your attentions may be
scattered and you might also suffer from shyness. You may
have a great imagination or talent but have difficulty
expressing it. In childhood this can result in frustration
and introversion. In your adult years you may come off as too
arrogant or eccentric to be taken seriously by anyone.

Life Challenge Number 4

This number often suggests a difficulty with finding
employment or a gratifying the career. You just may not feel
like working or suffer from a disorder or disability that
prevents you from working. In your early years your
opportunities to learn may have been truncated by physical or
financial circumstances. In adulthood you may become an
irresponsible or impractical individual who can't be trusted.

Life Challenge Number 5

This number usually defines a character that is unreasonable,
indecisive and easily irritated. You have an impulsive nature
and often run into trouble because you are unable to see the
consequences of your actions beforehand. In your early years this may result in an incomplete education or a number of
false starts in career. As adult your challenges manifest as
an inability to make decisions are acting in an overly
emotional as opposed to logical way.

Life Challenge Number 6

You may be a perfectionist and set standards for yourself and
others that are impossible to meet. You may come off as very
arrogant, controlling and demanding to others. As a child
you may have seriously butted horns with several authority
figures. As an adult you may have many unsettling
relationships because of your refusal to recognize that
others are entitle to their point of view. Your rigidity
could lead to a disorder such as obsessive compulsiveness.

Life Challenge Number 7

This number has a great deal of trouble dealing with
emotions. During this time in your life you may feel as if
you have to repress your feelings in order to survive. As a
child this can lead to introversion, obsessiveness and a
complete retreat from reality. As an adult you may suffer
from chronically negative thoughts and express them through
constant complaining or criticism of others. Many sevens are
hypochondriacs or manifest disease as a result of suppressed
anger or grief.

Life Challenge Number 8

A number 8 challenge indicates a kind of shallowness and
greed. You might define yourself and others by appearance,
possessions and by the amount of money that they have. As a
child you may have been clever, manipulative and insistent on
having your own way. As an adult you might value the pursuit
of money, power and status to the exclusion of all other
things. This can cost you dearly in terms of relationships,
family and friends.


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Sunday, July 15, 2012

How to Control Your 3-Year-Old's Aggressive Behavior

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Are you experiencing aggressive behavior in your 3-year-old? Is your 3-year-old calling all the shots? Do you feel exhausted and just don't know what else to do? If your answer is yes, and I bet it is... As you continue reading this article, you will learn how to end the power struggles, the aggressiveness and gain back control over your child behavior.

How to Control Your 3-Year-Old's Aggressive Behavior

Majority of children are not able recognize their own strength or even the full consequences of their actions; and in a world where they are often being told what to do, where to go and how to behave, it does not seem all that unreasonable that they may sometimes need to speak out and be heard.

-As you may already know, controlling feelings and emotions is a learned skill and can be very difficult to master in some adults, let alone children. For whatever reason your 3 yr old throw the outburst, one thing to always keep in mind is to not interact with power and anger of any sort or you will end up with a child that is very defensive and will fight whatever you ask him not to do.

-The good news is there are better ways to deal with this kind of aggressiveness that can create a win-win situation for both of you using proper child management methods. Nagging or punishing children for acting aggressively can make it more likely that they will act that way in the future. Imagine, if you will, a 3 yr old quietly piecing a puzzle together or even playing a video game. She/he has almost completed the puzzle/game but cannot get the final pieces/play to come together.

-Throughout this quiet half an hour the parent has been around but has said absolutely nothing. Nothing, that is until the child becomes obviously frustrated and throws the puzzle/game across the room and begins screaming or swearing loudly. At this point the parent intervenes by reprimanding the child and sending him/her to their room. You know where I am going with this right?

-It would appear that the parent has done everything appropriate in this situation, except for the fact that the only attention this child received during the time period was negative. If this is commonly the case, the child may begin to feel that any attention is better than no attention and as a result may continue to act out disruptively in daily activities.

-When dealing with aggressive children, it is worth the effort to praise even the smallest attempt at proper behavior, while paying very little if any attention to negative conduct. Praise can be a very strong motivator.


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Saturday, July 14, 2012

How To Make A Woman Feel Special - Treat Her Like A Queen

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Every human being likes to feel good about themselves, and nothing can impress a woman more than a guy who can make them feel special and treat them like an ultimate queen. Each guy has his own special way to make his woman feel special but there are certain techniques which work on almost all women all the time. Read on to discover how you can make a woman feel special and give her the best treatment.

How To Make A Woman Feel Special - Treat Her Like A Queen

Let her know what she means- Tell her what she means to you and what difference she makes to your life. Let her know that you simply can't not imagine living the way you are without her. Make her feel wanted and special.

Treat her like a friend- Share everything with her and talk to her like a friend and discuss about your issues and dreams, where you need to get in life and where you want to take the relationship.

Be protective of her- Nothing can make a woman feel more special than a guy who would stick by her every step of the way and protect you. Women are mostly attracted towards guys who can make them feel comfortable and feel protected.

Respect her opinions- Once in a blue moon learn to listen to have and take her opinions as well. Make her feel that she is heard as well when it comes to decision making in the house.

Learn to say sorry- Most men don't realize how far it can take your relationship by using the simple word sorry. Most men make mistakes in a relationship and always fail to say a simple sorry or never shed their ego. Be man enough to admit to your mistakes and say sorry when you feel you are wrong.

Thank her- Thank her for her commitment and all the sacrifices she has made for you. It does not have to be material incentive every time. A simple thank you is good enough to make her feel special and wanted in the relationship.


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Friday, July 13, 2012

How to Control Emotions in 3 Simple Steps

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From the moment we were born, we've been a slave to our emotions. Babies cry, kids throw tantrums, teenagers rebel... However, there are times when we need to rein these feelings in and learn how to control emotions.

How to Control Emotions in 3 Simple Steps

After all, you can't exactly break down in tears whenever your boss disagrees with your idea. And you can't exactly hit other people either because they irritate you.

So how do you control emotions? Read on to find out.

Step 1: Be Prepared.

Sometimes, we feel a burst of emotion when we're caught unaware. When someone says something that we don't expect, we might cry, laugh or get really angry. This might be okay when you're among friends, but it's a different story altogether when you're in the middle of a board meeting.

One way on how to control emotions is to prepare yourself for what's ahead. For example, if you already know that you're meeting with an insufferable client, pace yourself. Tell yourself not to get hot-headed. Be the epitome of cool. Preparing yourself helps you control your emotions and not the other way around.

Step 2: Be Objective.

By separating yourself from the situation, you're able to look at things in a more logical perspective.

Let's say you're a journalist covering an earthquake tragedy where thousands of people died. If you want to learn how to control emotions long enough so you can do your job properly, detach yourself from the number of grieving people. Focus on the numbers and the science.

Learning how to control emotions might sound harsh and cold in a tragedy such as this; but sometimes, it's the only way you can do your job and report the incident properly.

Step 3: Be Patient.

Counting 1-10 won't help you if you're a pretty impatient person. Therefore, it's important that you work on that area of yourself. Being patient helps delay bursts of emotion that may not be appropriate for the situation. It gives your feelings time to subside and retreat.

One way to cultivate patience is meditation. This activity also helps you calm yourself down and quell strong waves of emotion.

Being able to feel emotions and express them is part of being human. There's nothing wrong with that. However, there are certain instances wherein we must learn how to control emotions. Besides, sudden bursts of emotions also lead us to doing things we might regret later on. In order to avoid any awkward situations, remember to be prepared, be objective and be patient.


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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Our Best Hope - Great Teachers

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Without somebody who can make us feel safe, confident and competent in life, we are at a loss. We really need someone--a mature guide-- to help us realize our own dreams, and believe in us as well.

Our Best Hope - Great Teachers

Our teachers, some were our favorites when we were still in the grade school, others were our high school mentors... they have served us our guides in trudging the path towards success.

How many great teachers can you still remember? One, two or more... Well, with their good intentions during your crucial adolescent stage, they had been your saviors. Remember the time when your mother had been scolding you ( for the nth time ) in front of your classmates due to some misdemeanors... and your great teacher was there acting as if,-- he was your lawyer --defending you. Yes, of course, you could not forget this. And, whenever you've got a problem, you quickly remember him. Right?

Great as he is, you would also want to be like him. You also want to do great task to your fellow learners: be it in your workplace, school, organization, etc.

Such benevolence coming from him, would last a lifetime; giving you the strength to keep on doing good to your immediate family, friends, and --sometimes-- strangers. Yes, the desire to effect positive influence to others would definitely create a better world. A world where each one of us is vital influence to one another. Doing such thing could really give us positive feeling of fulfillment. A different high.

Blessed are those who know how to do good. They are our best hopes. Yes, the world needs them. We need best people to help us grow, go and glow.

We need to grow; in spirit, where emotion is controlled, especially negative ones. We need to go; taking challenges--facing problems. We need to glow; making others get something positive from us-- be it courage to keep on weathering the storm, the spirit to face trials and tribulations, etc.

Well, rejoice every time you encounter a test and your great teacher comes to mind in an instant. Apply the wisdom you have learned from him, and you'll in your way acing it out.


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Tuesday, July 10, 2012

A Simple Perspective That Fuels Starting Your Online Business

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Each and every day goes by with your thoughts on starting your online business, but what are you doing to bring that dream to reality? I know, I know there are obstacles, time constraints, fear, money is tight, I need more training, and on and on. Are these excuses real or just procrastination and avoidance raising their ugly heads? What if those obstacles were removed from the picture, what then? Would that do it for you? OK, I'll take them away for you right now with a simple perspective that fuels starting your online business.

A Simple Perspective That Fuels Starting Your Online Business

I want to share a wakeup call that I heard this morning from a colleague that will give you a quality perspective. While presented with an obstacle, that would further his online business, my colleague began mentally putting up excuses for why he couldn't do the task. He talked with his wife expressing how he was nervous, not confident, and stressing over the situation. Sound familiar to where you are with starting your online business? You're not alone. Speaking from a different perspective and situation, his wife brought to light the insignificants of his troubles when she painted the picture in front of her this morning.

His wife reminded him she was with their family friend at the hospital where she was just about to start her first treatment of chemotherapy for breast cancer. This 36 year old wife and mother, at the beginning of her family life, had real obstacles to face. Life and death, motherless children, limited time with those she loves, the quality of that time, battling cancer itself, successfully completing the treatments and beating cancer came to mind. How do your obstacles stand up in comparison? My colleague realized how trivial his obstacles really were and said to his wife you're right I can do this. I have created mountains out of mole hills letting my mind control my actions. No more he said and off he went to overcome with a simple perspective.

It's time to get very clear with your perspective before you miss the opportunities in front of you in life. Ask yourself are these obstacles real or just excuses? Would the young mother in the story above relish the opportunity to trade obstacles with you? Keep your perspective grounded and focus on solutions to these minor obstacles in the way of you reaching the online business you desire. Life is complicated enough without the creation of fictitious problems. I hope that this example gives you a simple perspective that fuels starting your online business.


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Sunday, July 8, 2012

Applying Success Strategies

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Do you work hard and still feel like you're not getting anywhere? Do you remember a time when you had dreams of doing something great or exciting with your life? At one time in your life, probably as a kid, your dreams were limitless and you thought you could do anything. But then you started having negative references or influences from people around you. Maybe you liked to be creative and loud and your parents would tell you, "Stop that, quiet down, your acting ridiculous." And after being told many times that your behavior was not right, you would bury your feelings and forget, kill a part inside you that was longing to shine.

Applying Success Strategies

Sometimes we had brothers and sisters that told us negative things or put us down. After a while we believed them. Or maybe you had positive influences in your household, but you saw your parents or parent struggle even after working very hard. In your mind you started to think that the reality of life was constant struggle and pain. Some people come from abusive backgrounds, others were orphans, some people even had great fortunate childhoods, but still in their adult life struggle to find their way to make a living.

I am here to tell you, that despite your childhood and upbringing, you can control your present state. You can be wealthy, happy, healthy, and loving. Your reality is only what you determine it is. There is always an example of someone worse off, who has done great things and been successful.

I can give you an example of a friend of mine from Cambodia, who as a little kid watched his parents killed in front of him. He was tortured by the military police and often beaten. He and his brother found a way to escape and were given an opportunity to be adopted by a family in the United States. This person was the most positive person I knew and worked harder than anyone I knew. He had already accomplished having a home and a car when I met him, and I am sure that many years later he is still successful because of his attitude toward life and work. You see somebody always has it worse than you. Our reality of life is only in our heads. Our brains can be our best asset or our biggest enemy.

Success strategies when applied correctly will work for anyone and everyone. I am not saying that you always accomplish your goals on the first try. There are always going to be obstacles and unseen events that nobody can control. What I am saying is that you can have strategies for attacking not only your goals but for handling problems. As long as you are on track reaching toward your goals constantly, you will only see temporary defeat and then bam!

You will always have "problems" or "challenges", only the dead have no problems. But you can handle your problems with a different attitude. That is the key to true success. We have all heard the story of Thomas Alva Edison, who invented the incandescent light bulb. He failed more than a thousand times before he actually got it right. When people asked him how could of he failed so many times, he would simply tell them, "I know that each time I failed it brought me closer to my goal." That statement is powerful, think about it carefully. Each failure will bring you closer to your intention as long as you keep going after a failure. The people that never try will never fail. Those same people will never live life the way they are supposed to.

In life, too many people get caught up in mediocrity, just surviving, paying the bills, feeling frustrated, and hating their jobs. That is a horrible way to live. There is so much out there for you. But you got to get out there and get it. Then once you get hooked on the passion of life, I want you to continue your journey and create the life of your dreams. Your success has nothing to do with your religion, economic background, race, facial features, current job position, or past school grades. Your success has to do with your attitude and the action that you take on a daily basis. In order to determine your actions requires that you learn and apply success strategies that have been applied by others before you.


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Saturday, July 7, 2012

Fast Weight Loss Tips to Make You Look Better

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Looking smart and pretty is a dream of many. Due to various reasons, people become overweight. When they come to know that they are overweight, it is already too late. If one can maintain good eating habits and do exercise regularly, there is no way one can gain extra weight. It is because of our negligence that many of us are victim of obesity. But there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. One can reduce weight if he/she sticks to the plan and some tips.

Fast Weight Loss Tips to Make You Look Better

Even following one fast weight loss tip can be quite effective. But there are many which you can take advantage of. First of all, drink plenty of water. Water maintains the calories and helps you burn some too. You should also have six small meals every day. In between those meals, your lunch should be the largest one while other meals should have some proteins and carbohydrates containing eatables. Also make sure that your last large meal three hours before sleeping. This helps a lot in controlling your weight. You should also start eating fruits as well as organic vegetables. Another fast weight loss tip is that you stop eating junk food. They have extra calories which doesn't help but only make you gain a lot of weight. Also stop drinking soft drinks and soda. Instead drink water as much as you can. Fat burners are a great way to lose weight but you should not be only depending on them.

Other than that, you should also go for a walk daily. This will increase your stamina as well as make you lose some calories. Also you should be having work out in a gym or at home. Exercise is a very important fast weight loss tip. So there are many ways which can be adopted to help you lose weight. You just need to strictly follow them and do not be ignorant.


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Friday, July 6, 2012

Online Business As a Means to Fulfillment in Life

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Most people are looking for happiness but it has proved to be quite elusive. I know many out there are dreaming of becoming millionaires. Maybe you are thinking of getting that great job, starting a big company, name it but you find that dream far fetched.

Online Business As a Means to Fulfillment in Life

The quest for money or a good career is not easy. But if you can manage to put your ambitions in the right perspective, you will be able to grasp the ever elusive happiness and fulfillment that many search for and never seem to find.

What determines a good career or business? Some of the things that determine whether a business is good is if it will give you more time with you family. It should also be a business you love doing and make you enough money.

Moments of rest and fun must be put into consideration. You will wear out fast if you work without enough rest. A person who enjoys good time in having fun and resting will work effectively and efficiently for long.

What others say long after you have quit working speaks much about the success of your business or career. Building a legacy or a success story that encourages others to try things that have not been done before may be a good indication of a life well lived. This means that your future achievements are controlled by your current decisions.

One thing that is able to guarantee financial freedom and achievement of all of the above is online business. Testimonies exist of individuals who have become millionaires overnight from conducting businesses like multilevel and affiliate marketing.


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Thursday, July 5, 2012

The Universe Works If You Get Out of the Way

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Sometimes, things just go our way. We get the job we have been dreaming of, an unexpected check comes in the mail, or things just seem to effortlessly fall into place for no apparent reason. We call it luck or attribute it to simply having a good day, but in truth, we have been given a glimpse of the actual nature of the universe.

The Universe Works If You Get Out of the Way

We tend to think the timing was right, never realizing that we are an innate part of the process. We are not random recipients of bounty. If only for the moment, our state of being pulls to us this divine experience of synchronicity. There is rhyme and reason to the way the universe unfolds. When we are "in the flow," we have released the illusion that we can protect ourselves by being in control. We have gotten out of the way long enough to experience how effortlessly this process takes place. We must be willing to stop pushing and allow the universe to send us the things we truly need rather than what we keep asking for.

When a bird looks for food, it makes an implicit assumption that it will find the worm and all will be okay. It does not get up and start thinking "What if I can't find food? What will happen to me?" It does not anticipate that there will be a problem. There is an ease with which it moves through its day, an underlying instinct that is minutely in keeping with life's basic nature. It does not think anything. Its being trusts that all will be provided for, and it does not question how.

To be in that state is to observe the precise timing in which all things fall into place and to simultaneously marvel at the exquisite manifestations of an ever changing universe. When we are fortunate enough to have an experience of this wholeness, we are filled with humility and compassion. We never know when we will be the recipients of such grace - that is part of the wonder.

I never thought a trip to the corner drugstore would deliver such an experience. I had gone there for the sole purpose of buying mascara and found myself wheeling the cart up and down each aisle looking for what else I could buy. On a top shelf, I spotted a box with a picture of a green birdfeeder. I liked the green color, but knew the last thing I needed was another birdfeeder. One had been hanging on my balcony for the past year. It had taken the doves close to three months to find it, but now they came every day. I looked at the box again and put it into my cart. I started to think about why I was purchasing it, and stopped myself. I was just going to buy it, and that was it.

Purchases in hand, I walked through my front door and headed out toward the balcony. There, lying on the ground, was the birdfeeder. My heart stopped. It looked like the wire that had been holding it had snapped. All I could do was stare at the broken feeder. A sense of wonder and wholeness filled my being. I felt disoriented, out of time and space, and yet at the same time I knew exactly where I was. I was 100 percent present. I could feel the intricacy of the process, every tiny little piece falling into place. Feeling it work, I intuitively knew that the birdfeeder had fallen the moment I had opened the door!

The universe operates with speed and efficiency in direct relation to our degree of trust. When we feel stuck, we need to get out of our own way. This does not mean that we simply sit back and do nothing, but rather that we know when to let go, when we have done enough. When we move through the world knowing that we will be provided for, magic happens.

Chapter 12 from Reality Works Copyright © 2002 Chandra Alexander


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Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Getting Rid of Clutter - Is It Possible? Could It Really Be Painless?

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Getting rid of clutter can seem like a never-ending battle. Just when you think you've got things under control, out squirts another basket of unclaimed laundry, school books, old mail, and papers no one wants but no one can throw out... No matter the season, the clutter clouds loom on the near horizon, waiting to overtake and envelop your home.

Getting Rid of Clutter - Is It Possible? Could It Really Be Painless?

In fall, the kids are back in school and routines are somewhat settled: new sports, arts and other activities seem to fill the house with backpacks, sporting equipment, uniforms, musical instruments and all sorts of extraneous items overflowing in the back hall, and through the kitchen, collecting in the living room and gathering in the garage.

As a child growing up, I recall my mother's vain attempt to contain our school clutter: she had the builder put in a tall set of deep shelves directly across from the back door in the hallway between the kitchen and laundry room. We each got one shelf. Our books, bags and whatever other school and activity paraphernalia we required were to be on that shelf or in our rooms. In theory, it was a great plan. In practice it meant that our shelves would be loaded up with everything from laundry to books to basketballs and sneakers, until they were bursting out all over the hallway and she would demand that we remove at least some of the offending personal clutter to our rooms.

Before you slump into defeat, as all your best home organizing ideas seem to have flown out the window... And your 4th grader arrives home with yet another back pack full of papers, forms, fundraising and charity drives from school and excitedly announces that she has to build a model working volcano and requires a long list of building materials and vast amounts of poster board for the science fair...

Before you give up on the idea that this holiday your home could be a centerpiece of tranquility and calm in the world... Clean, organized and beautifully decorated for the season... Even as you swear you can hear your house crying out "Help Me Get Rid of This Clutter!" Take heart. There is a better way...

Don't blame yourself for this problem; it's not your fault. Clutter is the visible stalker of most Americans... if you don't believe me; start looking around inside people's houses!

Getting organized can sometimes seem like the impossible dream. As you search the house for that missing pair of scissors one more time; consider the incredible amounts of time you would be free to spend as you wish if you were not chasing around for missing items half the time!

It's frightening! And what's really frightening is we're all doing it. The Gallup Company in Princeton did a study that revealed that top executives in major corporations waste approximately 5 weeks a year on misplaced items!

What to do? If top-level executives can't seem to manage it, is it really possible to de-clutter your home? One solution is to hire a professional "clutter control" expert to help you. That is a solution many people have chosen. And, for many of them it has worked very well

But what if you can't afford a personal "de-clutter coach" or, worse, you simply, don't have time to figure out how to hire one, let alone go through the entire clutter control process with him or her?

Do not despair. There may yet be hope. Even for those of us who have about as much extra time as we have extra cash lying around... There is an alternative to the cluttered home you've lived with, and you'll be surprised to learn how powerful, simple and easy it is.

So how do you combat clutter effectively? How do you make your home the organized reflection of a clutter-and-stress-free life-style?

Many Americans actually de-clutter by adding new space for clutter off site! They rent storage units and fill them with the clutter that no longer fits in the home. Those lucky enough to have an unfinished attic or large garage area may find that clutter begins to invade and take over these "out-of-the-way" places in the home until they are "filled to the gills" and overflowing... This is NOT the answer!

If you want to get a serious handle on clutter before the holidays arrive and leave you lurching through them in a sea of confusion, there may be only one real answer. You need a "Master Clutter Eliminator".

Luckily for all of us, there is such a person, and she has now written a simple step by step guide that promises to have you living in a Clutter Free Home, not only for a day, not only temporarily, but actually for the rest of your life, following her simple steps.

A plan so masterful, direct and clever there is no question that this de-clutter expert has done the work none of us has had the smarts or the time to do: figured out a fast, easy and effective way to end clutter forever.

But perhaps what is most amazing of all, this elegant answer to a problem that has plagued many of us all of our lives is actually FUN to carry out. I know what you're thinking... It's possible that in my newfound freedom from clutter I've simply slipped over the edge of reason. After all, who in their right mind could think of any form of cleaning as FUN? All I can say is... You won't believe it until you experience it for yourself. Once you do, you'll be amazed at how liberated you feel.

Then you can sit back, relax, and contemplate what you're planning to do with those extra five weeks (or more!) you just won back from the clutches of cluttered living... Maybe you'll start with a long hot soak in the tub... who knows?

As the holidays approach and I find myself surrounded by a clean, organized, clutter free and inviting home, I can only marvel at the genius of this amazing woman. Cluttered confusion transforms to clarity. It feels a bit like suddenly being a member of the Marvel Comics family: "Shazam!"

"Thank You Mimi!" Your expertise was EXACTLY what I needed to finally conquer clutter!


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Monday, July 2, 2012

The Ultimate Guide to Commitment Phobic Men

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Commitment phobic men are masters at deceptively keeping you hooked on them.

The Ultimate Guide to Commitment Phobic Men

Just about every woman has dated at least one commitment phobic man in her life. They are the ones who keep you waiting for the day they'll finally agree to live with you or marry you or commit exclusively to you. But they never do. When you meet them they are hard to resist because they compliment you and appeal to your vanity. And they lie. They lie about being in love with you, they lie about wanting to date you long term, they lie about not wanting just a sexual fling. And they don't care.

Here are examples of Commitment Phobic Male Behavior:

  • You date for one week and he tells you he loves you, the next week you never hear from him again
  • You date for a month and he tells you he only wants to date you, then you find out a friend saw him flirting at a party with someone else...the night he was too tired to go out with you
  • You live with him for 8 years and he still won't marry you
  • He still doesn't call you his girlfriend and sees his mom more than he sees you, after one year of dating

Commitment phobic men are men who cannot commit to you with the emotional intimacy of marriage or living together because they are emotionally attached to someone or something else that makes emotional intimacy with you impossible.

I know you're thinking right now, "But how can I avoid these men when I don't know if a guy is commitment phobic until after we've dated for weeks or months?

Actually, it's easy to spot a commitment phobic man when you first meet him, just by talking to him for a short period of time, before you even date him. You just need to know what behavior traits to look for. You must focus on certain signs a guy gives you that are indications of commitment phobic problems. These "red flags" are glaringly apparent when you know what they are. But even if you know what they are, you must summon the inner strength to ignore a commitment phobic man's charismatic charm, the appeal of his compliments, and your codependent desire to care for him.

Don't even give a guy like this a chance by dating him even once, if it's possible. Once you date him, he'll trap you with his bag of deceptive tricks, and manipulate you into feeling a comfortable false sense of emotional intimacy by telling you "You're the woman I've always dreamed of finding".

It's important to know the ploys and manipulative behavior of these men. They have the ability to make a woman feel a "codependent" need to take care of them by appealing to her need to feel special by taking care of others. They paint themselves as helpless victims of past love relationships, past failed jobs, and parents who abused them; and this makes a woman feel vulnerable to wanting to "fix" their lives and be the one to finally make them happy.

If you were the one in your family tending to the emotional needs of your parents or siblings, you will be easily lured into the world of a commitment phobic man. I highly suggest you read books on codependency by Melodie Beatty and learn what codependency is. It's important to know if you are susceptible to the charm of commitment phobic men due to your codependent behavioral upbringing.

Commitment phobic men hide behind a persona of charm and adulation towards women that completely camouflages how they truly feel inside. Behind the charming façade of a commitment phobic man's outer persona, is a man who wants to control, deceive and abuse women. They are unhappy with their lives and often blame a woman in their past for ruining it. Of course, this blame started with their mother, and has now transferred onto another woman in their life. But usually they don't realize the first seed of hatred towards women, and desperate neediness of them, started with their mother.

These men don't trust women, like women, respect women or admire women - they hate them. Many of these men are victims of verbal and sexual abuse as children. They have mothers who made their lives miserable, and now they will let out their anger and resentment on you.

When you first meet a commitment phobic man, he will have certain behavior traits that creep into his facade of adulation towards you. It's important to see these traits as red flags that signal how potentially disastrous dating a man like this can be. These initial behavior traits may seem innocent enough, but they are telltale signs of bigger problems to come. I call them 1st Stage Behavior Traits because this is the behavior you can detect when first meeting or dating a commitment phobic.

1st Stage Behavior Traits of Commitment Phobic Men:

Behavior Trait #1: He will single out insecure women who need attention and compliments to feel good about their life. Then he will say something to a woman that is slightly inappropriate about how sexually alluring she looks. This helps them find the woman who will put up with their problems because her self worth is tied up in someone else's opinion of her. This is the kind of woman they can control. The woman who doesn't walk away in disgust is their next victim.

Behavior Trait #2 He will keep the truth about his past life, his finances, his past relationships, his relationship with his mother, and how he truly feels about commitment from you. The real him will be well hidden from your outer view. Most commitment phobic men have deep feelings of shame about themselves and their life and they will hide that shame by doing things to cover up the truth about their life.

One commitment phobic guy I dated didn't have a decent car, so he used his mother's car to impress me, but never told me he was using her car until a month of dating him. Another guy I dated took me out to an expensive restaurant on a first blind date and constantly tipped the waiters with large bills. Then I realized on the 2nd date he really couldn't afford to be so extravagant when I saw his "down and out" apartment lifestyle. He had to give me a false impression about having lots of money, as if that one night would cloud my ability to see his dismal apartment.

There is nothing wrong with a guy wanting to impress you on a date by taking you to a nice restaurant or driving his parent's car. But there is something wrong with a guy deliberately presenting himself as someone he isn't just to keep you from knowing the real him. If he has to keep facts about his life from you, he isn't honest, regardless of the reason he's doing it. Unfortunately many women who first date commitment phobic men catch a deception, and then they make excuses for why he did it. They don't realize that once you accept any deception, you will be dealing with bigger lies and secrets to come.

Behavior trait #3: You can never have a conversation with him about what his relationship goals are. He'll act uncomfortable, and sometimes visibly annoyed. If you sense he isn't open to a future that includes the kind of commitment you are looking for from a man, don't consider dating him. Men who won't commit in relationships will show you by their facial expression and behavior, when you bring up the subject of commitment that it's one subject they don't care to discuss. You must realize he has commitment issues when he freezes up when you talk about what you are looking for in a long term relationship. And if he tells you he never wants to get married, he's doing you a big favor. Believe him and don't think you can change him, regardless of how much he tells you "you're the woman of his dreams". Don't even consider being the one who'll be that loving wife he never found. Remember this: with commitment phobic men, it's not only what they say that matters; it's their attitude about certain subjects and what you sense they are keeping from you. It's that unsettling feeling in your gut that this guy isn't being totally honest with you.

If you do continue to date a guy like this, you've accepted behavior that already sets the tone for how he'll continue to treat you, which will be all about what matters to him. Many women feel it isn't their right to talk about their relationship needs when they first meet a guy. They feel they will scare the guy away because he'll immediately think they want to marry him. Wrong! This is the time you must talk about what you want in life. If you don't tell a guy you want to get married and have kids one day, you will give up your right to expect to get it down the road as far as he's concerned. Commitment phobic men don't waste their time with women who declare confidently that they want to get married and have kids. It's the surest way to watch them disappear.

Behavior trait#4: Another surefire sign that a guy is a commitment phobic is when he will never do anything on time and will always change the time and day of your date or be late for your date. He will also never agree with your suggestion about the date. If you make a decision about the movie you want to see or the restaurant you want to go to, he will want to try a different one. If you accept this behavior, he will continue to act controlling with you, by never focusing on pleasing YOU in the relationship. Of course, you may not notice these first signs when he keeps telling you how beautiful you are and how he can't wait to make love to you. You won't be annoyed that he's always late when he flatters you all the time, right? He is setting up control in the relationship; one that gives him the right to dictate to you what the terms of the relationship will be. And those terms will not include committing to you.

Behavior trait #5: He will make you feel like the most beautiful woman on the planet. He will shower you with his desire for you and give you compliments to an extreme. He will tell you that you are the only woman who understands him, makes him feel such intense attraction, and that he knows he will fall in love with you because you are the woman of his dreams (if he isn't in love with you already). This is all to distract you from getting to know the real person behind those compliments, seeing all those deceptions and false pretenses.

Behavior trait #6: He will have a dependent personality which means he will need you to take care of him and he will only appreciate you when you do things for him. He will paint himself as a victim of life with bad luck and bad, cruel women. "Thank god he's finally found you" will be his motto. That is, until he gets bored with you and moves on to someone else. And even if he doesn't, he'll never commit to you or fulfill you emotionally. He will lump you in the pile of all those other cruel women who never understand him or care about him. And all you will feel when he moves on is how much you were used and unappreciated.

It's easy to spot a commitment phobic man when you notice these behavior traits. Usually the first behavior trait is hard to detect until you've dated him for awhile and realize the real truth about his life and his past. But the other behavior traits show up immediately: his constant barrage of compliments and making you feel like you are the woman of his dreams; his first comment to you being inappropriate about your physical appearance (or inappropriate touching); his victim mentality about past relationships; his reluctant, almost angry attitude about talking about commitment in a relationship, his constant control of how you both spend your time together by always being late and wanting to change plans and never letting you decide what to do on a date.

These behavior traits may seem harmless and insignificant, but they are red flag signs of serious trouble to come.

See the signs, and when you do, close the door on his opportunity to date you. You deserve a man who offers you so much more.


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