Pleasing a man sexually in bed is something that most women think is easy and straightforward. Unlike women who are often viewed as sexually complex, men are seen as simple creatures who are easy to please.
Nothing could be further from the truth. Just because men reach orgasm easily, doesn't mean that they're satisfied in the fullest sense. In fact, guys can become just as frustrated with their sex life as girls can. If you want to sexually please your man you need to learn how to do it right in a way that will leave him fulfilled beyond his wildest dreams.
First, let's talk about fore-play. Men like foreplay too but they tend to like to "see the light at the end of the tunnel" so to speak. What I mean by that is that guys don't like for the foreplay part of lovemaking to take too long but they do enjoy it.
Second, the assumption by many women that guys just have one erogenous zone to take care of is false. Many men have sensitive nipples, neck, and stomach, that you can touch or kiss to enhance their pleasure and experience. Don't overlook these areas and study your men to see where he's sensitive.
Third, there isn't just one position that all men like. You need to be willing to experiment to find those that work best for him (and you). One way is to consider which sort of guy he is in bed: does he like to be in control and be on top, or does he enjoy being controlled, which will mean being on the bottom. To please your man sexually in bed you will need to try things and see.
Fourth, oral sex is very important for men. In fact, many men will not be in a relationship with a woman for too long unless she's into giving oral sex and knows how to do it well. If you really want to drive your man wild with pleasure, you will need to be good at oral sex.
Fifth, don't forget to demand pleasure as well. Guys like to feel that they're good lovers too. It's part of their manhood. If you show him what you like he will try his best to pleasure you as well. This in turn will make it a more satisfying relationship for him as well.
I hope these tips will help you enjoy a better sex life together.
